Friday, 28 February 2025

an empty suit, a stuffed shirt, strong silent type, Peter principle;

用法学习: 1. have a dog in the/this fight 有既得利益 to be involved in or affected by a situation personally: Donations of money should not be accepted from people who have a dog in the fight. Lawyers could hold a grudge against a particular judge, or vice versa, but jurors do not have a dog in the fight. This is between myself and my insurance company and I don't see that the government has any dog in the fight. We don't have a dog in this fight — we're just here to fix a problem. We have no dog in this fight, but we want a fair outcome for everybody. have no dog in the/this fight 不关切身利益, 没有偏向, 事不关己, 置身事外 To not have any vested interest in or anything to gain by a given situation. A: "Are you going to watch the big game tonight?" B: "Nah, my team's not playing, so I have no dog in the fight." A lot of people think small businesses have no dog in the fight, but these proposed tax changes would have a big impact on them too. She has no dog in the fight—why does she care so much about the outcome of this lawsuit? recidivism [rɪˈsɪdɪvɪz(ə)m] 重犯, 再犯 the tendency of a convicted criminal to reoffend. the act of continuing to commit crimes even after having been punished: This program is aimed at reducing recidivism. Recidivism rates are 25 percent lower for offenders who get structured treatment. "the prison has succeeded in reducing recidivism". recidivist [rɪˈsɪd.ɪ.vɪst] 屡教不改 a criminal who continues to commit crimes even after they have been punished. A recidivist is someone who has committed crimes in the past and has begun to commit crimes again, for example after a period in prison. Six prisoners are still at large along with four dangerous recidivists. Their basic criticism was that prisons do not reduce the crime rate, they cause recidivism. 2. An "empty suit" 银样镴枪头, 空有其表, 虚有其表, 徒有其表, 外强中干, 中看不中用 (derogatory) An ineffective or incompetent person in a place of authority. a term used to describe someone who appears to be competent or powerful, but is actually not very effective. The term is often used to describe executives, managers, or officials. A senator who dresses well but has not accomplished anything. An authority figure who dresses appropriately but is ineffective. A person who avoids accountability and doesn't learn from mistakes. A person who overestimates their abilities because they don't admit to mistakes. an important or wealthy man regarded as lacking substance, personality, or ability. "they're a bunch of Ivy League empty suits". Etymology: Derived from unfavorable observations that ineffective professionals are memorable only for what they wear and not what they accomplish at the workplace. An empty suit is someone who appears powerful, wise, or competent, but is actually not very good at their job. An authority figure who dresses appropriately but is completely ineffective is an empty suit. Imagine a school principal who walks around looking just like a principal should, wearing exactly the right outfits, but is absolutely terrible at the job. This derogatory term empty suit comes from the idea of a person having no real substance beneath the suit they wear. A sharp-dressed senator who has never accomplished anything on Capitol Hill might be criticized as an empty suit. A politician who hasn't made any campaign promises. John Doe is an empty suit running on an anti-populist platform. Peter principle (management) The theory that people in an organization tend to rise (be promoted) to the level of their incompetence. the principle that members of a hierarchy are promoted until they reach the level at which they are no longer competent. the theory that people are promoted (= given more important and difficult jobs) in an organization until they reach a level where they cannot do their job well: It was felt that his promotion was a classic example of the Peter Principle, where managers tend to be promoted beyond their level of competence. His election to high office shows the Peter Principle at work in politics. wiki: The Peter principle is a concept in management developed by Laurence J. Peter which observes that people in a hierarchy tend to rise to "a level of respective incompetence": employees are promoted based on their success in previous jobs until they reach a level at which they are no longer competent, as skills in one job do not necessarily translate to another. stuffed shirt 正儿八经的人 informal disapproving someone who behaves in a very formal and old-fashioned way and thinks that they are very important. a conservative, pompous person. "I just want it to be for fun people, not stuffed shirts". Where does this stuffed shirt get off criticizing everyone based on his warped perception? I'm tired of all that other crowd--the stuffed shirt brigade, you know. His employees think he's a stuffed shirt, too. He didn't go for either stuffed shirts or strong silent men. If you describe someone, especially someone with an important position, as a stuffed shirt, you mean that they are extremely formal and old-fashioned. If you call a man a stuffed shirt, you mean that he is formal and boring. In a pinstriped suit he instantly looked like a stuffed shirt. His seminars work because he speaks like an ordinary, approachable person rather than a stuffed shirt. It's his amusement about the world around him that makes him appealing as a politician, so different from all those stuffed shirts. Note: You can use stuffed-shirt before a noun. I have little patience with the dress rules of stuffed-shirt establishments. Note: This refers to a shirt being displayed on a dummy in a clothing shop. The dummy is hollow and has no use apart from filling the space occupied by the shirt. strong silent type 不说废话的人, 人狠话不多 A man of action who is reserved and masks his feelings. Almost never used for a woman, this expression may be obsolescent (obsolescent [ˌɒb.səˈles.ənt] becoming obsolete: Much of our existing military hardware is obsolescent. If something is obsolescent, it is no longer needed because something better has been invented. ...outmoded, obsolescent equipment. ). A physically strong man of action who is quiet and emotionally reserved. A person, especially a man, who exudes strength by taking action without expressing or worrying about their emotions. I've always been attracted to the strong, silent type, but whenever I'm in a relationship with a guy like that, I find it infuriating that he never tells me what he's thinking or includes me in the decision-making process. Paula always preferred the strong silent type to more extroverted men. note: While the phrase is almost always used in reference to a man, it may, on occasion, be applied to a woman. 3. mercurial [mɜːˈkjʊə.ri.əl] 多变的, 善变的, 阴晴不定的 I. changing suddenly and often. If you describe someone as mercurial, you mean that they frequently change their mind or mood without warning. ...his mercurial temperament. a mercurial temperament. She was entertaining but unpredictable, with mercurial mood swings. II. intelligent, enthusiastic, and quick: a mercurial mind/wit. III. MEDICAL specialized containing or caused by mercury: mercurial drugs. blaster 喷枪 I. a person whose job is to remove or destroy something by exploding it: He did not have a licence to work as a crane operator or a blaster, according to the report. An avalanche blaster must undergo three years of on-the-job training and take written exams. II. a tool or object that can send out water, gas, air, etc. with a lot of force: You can create a water blaster from a plastic tube. They invented a carbon dioxide blaster that doctors can use to separate patients' organs during laparoscopic surgery. III. a weapon in a science fiction story (= one about an imagined future) that can destroy solid objects: The sound is like an asteroid blaster from an old video game. They explored the planet, keeping their blasters ready in their hands. bluster [ˈblʌs.tər] 虚张声势, 色厉内荏, 破口大骂, 骂大街, 泼妇骂街 verb. I. to speak in a loud, angry, or offended way, usually with little effect. If you say that someone is blustering, you mean that they are speaking aggressively but without authority, often because they are angry or offended. 'That's lunacy,' he blustered. He was still blustering, but there was panic in his eyes. ...the bluster of the party's campaign. "You had no right to do it, no right at all," he blustered. II. If the wind blusters, it blows strongly: A gale was blustering around the house. noun. loud, angry, or offended talk, usually with little effect. talk intended to seem important or threatening but which is not taken seriously and has little effect: For all his bluster about his military adventures, McLaughlin was enormously likable. I knew that it was all bluster and he wasn't really angry with me. His tough talk amounts to no more than macho bluster. 4. "Come bearing gifts 带着礼物来的" means to arrive with presents or offerings for someone else, often implying a gesture of goodwill or appeasement, but with a cautionary undertone due to the origin of the phrase which is "Beware of Greeks bearing gifts," referring to the Trojan Horse story where the Greeks seemingly offered a gift that was actually a trap; essentially, don't trust someone who brings you a seemingly generous gift, especially if they have ulterior motives. Timeō Danaōs et dōna ferentēs, paraphrased in English as "I fear the Greeks even when bearing gifts", is a Latin phrase from the Aeneid, a Latin epic poem written by Virgil between 29 and 19 BCE. The utterance, spoken by Trojan priest Laocoön, refers to the Trojan Horse constructed by the Greeks during the Trojan War. The literal meaning of the phrase is "I fear the Danaans [Greeks], even those bearing gifts" or "even when they bear gifts". Most printed versions of the text have the variant ferentis instead of ferentes. In modern English, the sentence is used as a proverb to warn against trusting an enemy or adversary, even when they appear to make an enticing offer. beware of Greeks bearing gifts 小心心怀不轨的人 proverb Be skeptical of a present or kindness from an enemy. The phrase refers to the Trojan horse, a gift to the Trojans from which Greek soldiers emerged and conquered Troy. A: "I can't believe the opposing team made us cupcakes before the big game!" B: "Yeah, I'd beware of Greeks bearing gifts if I were you." Any time a stranger is too friendly, I can't help but think, beware of Greeks bearing gifts. You just never know if they have an ulterior motive or not! A: "I asked Alyssa to tell the teacher I was going to be late to class, but she didn't, and now I have a demerit!" B: "Isn't Alyssa your main competition for valedictorian? Come on, beware of Greeks bearing gifts." Prov. Do not trust an opponent who offers to do something nice for you. Jill: I can't believe Melanie brought me cookies today, when we've been fighting for weeks. Jane: Beware of Greeks bearing gifts. She probably has ulterior motives. When the rival company invited all his employees to a Christmas party, Tom's first impulse was to beware of Greeks bearing gifts, but then he upbraided himself for being paranoid. when the tree falls, the monkeys scatter 树倒猢狲散 proverb When someone loses power, their supporters or followers will desert them. The phrase comes from a Chinese proverb. I'm not surprised that so many board members are stepping down now that the CEO has resigned in disgrace. When the tree falls, the monkeys scatter. for want of a nail 顾头不顾屁股, 因小失大, 捡了芝麻丢了西瓜, 猴子掰玉米一样 proverb Due to a minor inconvenience or mishap, (something much worse has happened). The full proverb is "For want of a nail the shoe was lost. For want of a shoe the horse was lost. For want of a horse the rider was lost. For want of a rider the battle was lost. For want of a battle the kingdom was lost. And all for the want of a horseshoe nail ( horseshoe nail a thin pointed nail with heavy flaring head that is used to fix a horseshoe to the hoof.)." If only you'd taken your car in for an oil change when you were supposed to, this emergency trip to the mechanic could have been avoided. Ah, for want of a nail. The entire company ended up folding due to a failure by one of its employees to mail the loan application on time. For want of a nail, as they say. I told him repeatedly to do something about that leaking pipe, but no. And now, for want of a nail, the whole basement is flooded. 5. an elephant never forgets 没齿难忘 One remembers everything. A play on the idea that elephants have great memories. I don't think we can pick up where we were before you betrayed me because an elephant never forgets! I would be hesitant to cross him—he's a dangerous man, and an elephant never forgets. A: "It's like Mom remembers every thing I've ever done wrong in my life!" B: "Oh, an elephant never forgets." have the memory of an elephant 记性好 To have an exceptionally good memory. An allusion to the fact that elephants are known to have great memories. Mom has the memory of an elephant, so she'll be sure to remember Joe's phone number. I swear, that kid has the memory of an elephant. He just reminded me about something I told him three weeks ago! It's wild to hear Grandma talk about her childhood in Russia. She might be 93 years old, but she has the memory of an elephant. spadework 基础工作, 奠基工作, 准备工作 hard or routine preparatory work. hard, sometimes boring work done in preparation for something. Work done in preparation for something else. There's a lot of spadework to be done before the scheme can be implemented. Now that the spadework's all been done, we can start to write the report itself. "there were a few young recruits on hand to help with the spadework". from one day to the next 一天天的, 第二天, 每一天 before each day happens: I never know what I'll be doing from one day to the next. It's so unpredictable - you never know what you're going to find from one day to the next. It's so strange how your feelings about the same situation can change from one day to the next. I have no idea how she'll be from one day to the next. "From one day to day one" means transitioning from a mindset of passively thinking about doing something "one day" in the future, to actively starting and committing to doing it "today" - essentially, moving from procrastination to taking immediate action and beginning a new phase. 6. TBBG: Penny: Okay, I don't think Amy wants a pocket watch. Sheldon: No, but maybe she wants a man with a pocket watch. Penny: Still saying stupid stuff. Ooh, does she like bracelets? Sheldon: Well, she's very fond of her silver one that says allergic to penicillin. Maybe they have a dressier ( dressy I. Dressy clothes are suitable for formal occasions: I need something a bit more dressy for the wedding. II. A dressy occasion is one at which people wear very formal clothes: a dressy affair/occasion. III. 正装的. (of clothing) suitable for formal occasions: I have some dressy shoes that I can wear to the wedding. ) version of that? Assistant: Well, how are we doing this afternoon? Are we looking for anything special? Perhaps a ring for the lady? Penny: (Snorts) Trust me, we are not a couple. Sheldon: Excuse me. I don't see why you get to snort derisively 讥讽的, 不屑的 and point that out. You'd be lucky to land a fella like me. well-aware having knowledge or awareness. having full knowledge of a situation or fact. "they were well aware of the problem". Well aware of the problems. backwash I. an effect that is not the direct result of something. The backwash of an event or situation is an unpleasant situation that exists after it and as a result of it. ...the backwash of the tragedy. The Treasury had been blaming the pound's weakness on the backwash from the falling dollar. The economic and political backwash of the war is still being felt. II. the backward movement of waves, or the backward movement of water caused by something, such as a boat, passing through it: The waterskier was caught in the backwash from a motorboat. III. 唾沫. 残渣. The saliva, spit or food particles that have flowed back into a drink after someone has drunk from it. IV. (economics) The situation where economic growth in one area harms other areas by attracting people and business away from those areas. 7. "The No Child Left Behind Act 一个都不能少 of 2001 (NCLB) was a 2002 U.S. Act of Congress promoted by the presidency of George W. Bush. It reauthorized the Elementary and Secondary Education Act and included Title I provisions applying to disadvantaged students. It mandated standards-based education reform based on the premise that setting high standards and establishing measurable goals could improve individual outcomes in education. To receive federal school funding, states had to create and give assessments to all students at select grade levels. No child left behind" means that every student, regardless of their background or abilities, should have access to a quality education and be given the necessary support to succeed, ensuring that no child is left behind in the learning process; it is often used in the context of education policy to emphasize the goal of achieving equal educational outcomes for all students. buy someone off with sth 收买 to pay someone so that they do not cause you any trouble. to give someone money so that person will help you or let you do something that is not legal: A well-known business executive had bought off government inspectors. They tried to buy the guard at the bank off but he told the police and the gang was arrested. sturdy 不容易坏的, 坚固, 结实耐用 physically strong and solid or thick, and therefore unlikely to break or be hurt. Someone or something that is sturdy looks strong and is unlikely to be easily injured or damaged. She was a short, sturdy woman in her early sixties. The camera was mounted on a sturdy tripod. It was a good table too, sturdily constructed of elm. sturdy walking boots. a sturdy table. sturdy little legs. wang = wanger [wæŋ] slang offensive a rude word for the penis. praise be!  太好了, 太棒了, 谢天谢地: ARCHAIC old-fashioned used as an expression of relief, joy, or gratitude. used when you are very pleased about something that has happened. "'How is your sister?' 'On the mend, praise be'. 8. TBBT: Amy: From a neurobiological standpoint, Leonard, you may be alone because your psychological state is causing an actual pheromone-based stink of desperation. Sheldon: Did you know that, Leonard? Leonard: No. Sheldon: I did. Amy: I understand that some people find mates in social gathering places 社交场合 such as bars or taverns. Have you tried a bar or tavern? Leonard: No, I'm not gonna try to pick up a woman in a bar. Sheldon: Wise decision. You see, Amy, success at a bar is based on classic male attributes ( noun. [ˈatrɪbjuːt] verb. [əˈtrɪbjuːt] )男性特征 such as height, strength, attractiveness, the ability to hold one's liquor and throw darts, separately or together. Leonard has none of these attributes, right, Leonard? Leonard: Right. Amy: That's not true of all bars. Juice bars, for example. Sheldon: Oh! Good point, Amy. Yeah, building on your premise, Leonard could frequent sushi bars, salad bars, oyster bars, the Apple Genius Bar, what are you doing Leonard (exiting the apartment): Keep going. I'm listening. Amy: That was rude. Sheldon: He does it all the time. He's a cornucopia ( cornucopia [ˌkɔːnjʊˈkəʊpɪə] 大量的 I. a container in the shape of an animal's horn, full of fruit and flowers, often used as a symbol in art: Each of the figures bears a cornucopia, which is the usual symbol of plenty. The cloisters are decorated with a riotous mixture of human and animal figures, scallop shells, and cornucopias. II. a large amount or supply of something, or something that provides this: cornucopia of A cornucopia of things is a large number of different things. ...a cornucopia of fruits. ...a table festooned with a cornucopia of fruitThe table held a veritable cornucopia of every kind of food or drink you could want. This book is a cornucopia of facts and folklore about tigers. Our supermarkets are veritable cornucopias. horn of plenty I. a container in the shape of an animal's horn, full of fruit and flowers and often used as a table decoration in American homes on Thanksgiving: For centrepieces, consider placing a horn of plenty on each table, brimming with fruit or flower petals. Overflowing with grapes, pomegranates, and pink roses, this horn of plenty is made from crabapple branches. II. something that provides a large amount or supply of something: The internet is a horn of plenty that has presented new opportunites for similarly minded individuals with unusual interests. These new inventions proved a horn of plenty, making the last decade of the 20th century a golden age for astronomers, astrophysicists, and cosmologists. III. a type of mushroom that you can eat and is shaped like a trumpet (= a brass musical instrument consisting of a metal tube with one narrow end, into which the player blows, and one wide end): The horn of plenty is a dark brown wild mushroom. I picked nearly a kilo of trompettes de la mort - I prefer the French name to the English name "horn of plenty". galore [ɡəˈlɔː] 到处都是, 大量存在 adj. in abundance. in great amounts or numbers. You use galore to emphasize that something you like exists in very large quantities. You'll be able to win prizes galore. ...a popular resort with beaches galoreAnd to satisfy your sweet tooth, this café has desserts galore. "there were prizes galore for everything". For each category, there can only be one winner. And that means there are snubs galore after tonight’s 97th Academy Awards. ) of social awkwardness. Amy: Cornucopia. What a mellifluous ( mellifluous [mɪˈlɪflʊəs] 悦耳动听的 having a pleasant and flowing sound: a deep mellifluous voice. the mellifluous sound of the cello. A mellifluous voice or piece of music is smooth and gentle and very pleasant to listen to. I grew up around people who had wonderful, mellifluous voices. Soon the room is filled with Bates' mellifluous tones. honeyed tones/words/voice 甜言蜜语 used to describe speech or a person's voice when it is gentle and pleasant to listen to, sometimes in a way that is not sincere. honeyed 抹了蜜的 I. You can describe someone's voice or words as honeyed when they are very pleasant to listen to, especially if you want to suggest that they are insincere. His gentle manner and honeyed tones reassured Andrew. They could not understand how anyone could believe her honeyed words. II. 甜甜的 You can describe something as honeyed when it tastes or smells of honey, or is the pale yellowish colour of honey. I could smell the honeyed ripeness of melons and peaches. ...a warm, honeyed light. dulcet [ˈdʌl.sət] 温柔的声音 I. Dulcet sounds are soft and pleasant to listen to. A dulcet voice is one that is gentle and pleasant to listen to. Quickly, in her dulcet voice, Tamara told him what had happenedsomeone's dulcet tones humorous People often use the expression dulcet tones to refer to someone's voice. a person's voice: You hear his dulcet tones on the Radio 1 trailers in the morning. I thought I heard your dulcet tones down here. ) word. Sheldon: Let's make that our word of the day. Amy: Agreed. And we'll use mellifluous tomorrow. 9. exfiltrate [ˈɛksfɪltreɪt] I. withdraw (troops or spies) surreptitiously, especially from a dangerous situation. to remove or withdraw (an intelligence agent, soldier, etc) surreptitiously from an enemy-held area. "US special forces agents have all been exfiltrated from Iran". Chang's life – and those of his wife and three children – took a dramatic turn in January 1988, when the CIA exfiltrated them to the US. By then, President Ronald Reagan's administration had amassed sufficient evidence and seized the opportunity created by the death of President Chiang Ching-kuo – Chiang Kai-shek's son – to pressure his reformist successor Lee Teng-hui into cooperation. II. to remove (data) from a computer, network, etc surreptitiously and without permission or unlawfully. consummate verb. [ˈkɒns(j)ʊmeɪt] make (a marriage or relationship) complete by having sexual intercourse. "they did not consummate their marriage until months after it took place". II. complete (a transaction). To consummate an agreement means to complete it. There have been several close calls, but no one has been able to consummate a deal. "the property sale is consummated". adj. [ˈkɒns(j)ʊmət] 技巧娴熟的, 老练的 I. showing great skill and flair. You use consummate to describe someone who is extremely skilful. He acted the part with consummate skill. Those familiar with Sanders call him a consummate politician. The film is a well made, atmospheric, consummately acted piece. "she dressed with consummate elegance". II. perfect, or complete in every way: a life of consummate happiness. He's a consummate athlete/gentleman/liad. Referring to his views on Iran, Leon Wieseltier described Zakaria in 2010 as a "consummate spokesman for the shibboleths of the [Obama] White House and for the smooth new worldliness, the at-the-highest-levels impatience with democracy and human rights as central objectives of our foreign policy, that now characterize advanced liberal thinking about America's role in the world." shibboleth [ˈʃɪb.əl.eθ] 老观念, 过时的观念, 不合时宜的风俗 I. a belief or custom that is not now considered as important and correct as it was in the past: They still cling to many of the old shibboleths of education. If you describe an idea or belief as a shibboleth, you mean that it is thought important by a group of people but may be old-fashioned or wrong. It is time to go beyond the shibboleth that conventional forces cannot deter. a custom, principle, or belief distinguishing a particular class or group of people, especially a long-standing one regarded as outmoded or no longer important. "the majority, under the influence of vague nineteenth-century shibboleths, understood him to be associating himself with the doctrine that every nation has a right to be a sovereign state". II. 暗号, 暗语. 对口令, 对口号. a word, phrase, custom, etc., only known to a particular group of people, that you can use to prove to them that you are a real member of that group. wiki: A shibboleth ([ˈʃɪbəlɛθ, -ɪθ] ) is any custom or tradition, usually a choice of phrasing or single word, that distinguishes one group of people from another. Historically, shibboleths have been used as passwords, ways of self-identification, signals of loyalty and affinity, ways of maintaining traditional segregation, or protection from real or perceived threats. virtuoso [ˌvɜː.tjuˈəʊ.səʊ] 乐手 复数: virtuosos or virtuosi. noun. a person who is extremely skilled at something, especially at playing an instrument or performing: virtuoso on Famous mainly for his wonderful voice, Cole Porter was also a virtuoso on the piano. He was gaining a reputation as a remarkable virtuoso. adj. = virtuosic A virtuoso performance or display shows great skill. extremely skilled and impressive, especially at playing an instrument or performing: virtuoso performance The Times critic described her dancing as "a virtuoso performance of dazzling accomplishment". He was a virtuoso violinist. There were passages of truly virtuoso playing. He was one of the most expressive and virtuosic improvisers in the history of jazz music. Opening the concert, she showed off her virtuosic technical skills and musicality. The solo part was virtuosic, with dazzling cadenzas. Her retelling of The Comedy of Errors is virtuoso. England's football fans were hoping for a virtuoso performance against Cameroon. 10. overrun verb. I. If an army or an armed force overruns a place, area, or country 占据, 占有, it succeeds in occupying it very quickly. A group of rebels overran the port area and most of the northern suburbs. II. If an event or meeting overruns by, for example, ten minutes 超时, it continues for ten minutes longer than it was intended to. Tuesday's lunch overran by three-quarters of an hour. The talks overran their allotted time. III. If costs overrun 超出预算, 费用超标, 预算超标, they are higher than was planned or expected. The US developer took a $163m hit after costs overran at the wind farm. Costs overran the budget by about 30%. He was stunned to discover cost overruns of at least $1 billion. In March 2021, Zakaria criticized the size of the U.S. military budget, saying that "The United States' F-35 fighter jet program, bedeviled by cost overruns and technical problems, will ultimately cost taxpayers $1.7 trillion. China will spend a comparable amount of money on its Belt and Road Initiative...Which is money better spent?". adj. I. If you say that a place is overrun with or by things that you consider undesirable, you mean that there are a large number of them there. The flower beds were overrun with grasses. The Hotel has been ordered to close because it is overrun by mice and rats. Padua and Vicenza are prosperous, well-preserved cities, not overrun by tourists. bedevil verb 陷入, 身陷, 摆脱不掉. If you are bedevilled by something unpleasant, it causes you a lot of problems over a period of time. to confuse, annoy, or cause problems or difficulties for someone or something: Ever since I started playing tennis, I've been bedevilled by back pains. His career was bedevilled by injury. The development has been bedevilled with problems. ...a problem that has bedevilled service industries for decades. 10. The haphazard ( haphazard [hæpˈhæz·ərd] 无组织, 无纪律的. 无计划的, 随心所欲的 lacking order or purpose; not planned: Haphazard record-keeping made it difficult for the agency to keep track of its clients. ) nihilism ( nihilism [ˈnʌɪ(h)ɪlɪz(ə)m] 虚无主义 a belief that all political and religious organizations are bad, or a system of thought that says that there are no principles or beliefs that have any meaning or can be true. the rejection of all religious and moral principles, in the belief that life is meaningless. "they condemned the show for its cynicism and nihilism". ) of America's new Department of Government Efficiency: DOGE's heavy-handed approach is not likely to make the government more efficient. "We won't be perfect. But when we make mistake, we will fix it very quickly," later backtracked Musk, who is running President Donald Trump's effort to eviscerate 削减, 清理内脏 the federal government. "With USAID, one of the things we accidentally canceled very briefly was Ebola, Ebola prevention. I think we all want Ebola prevention. So, we restored the Ebola prevention immediately," he said. This haphazard nihilism is symptomatic of Musk's approach with the de-facto Department of Government Efficiency (DOGE): destroy first, ask questions later. Claims that DOGE has already saved tens of billions of dollars in taxpayer cash are dubious — despite evidence trumpeted by conservative media of frivolous spending. There's nothing wrong with curtailing 削减 ( curtail to stop something before it is finished, or to reduce or limit something: to curtail your holiday/spending. severely curtailed With all the snow, our daily walks have been severely curtailed.) bloated government. When the public thinks its cash is being wasted, governance loses legitimacy. Every state capital has a big federal building — and it's now dawning on some of Trump's cheerleaders that hundreds of thousand of government jobs exist outside the Beltway ( outside the Beltway 政府部门之外 Primarily related to, concerned with, or affecting those who are not involved or associated with the US federal government, especially average citizens. "The Beltway" is a shortening of "The Capital Beltway," a nickname for Interstate 495 华盛顿特区环路 ( = ringroad in UK), which surrounds Washington, DC, as well as parts of Virginia and Maryland. When you've been working as a lobbyist in Washington for your entire career, it can be hard to imagine a life outside of the Beltway. The oil tycoon ran his election campaign on the fact that he came from outside the Beltway, claiming it made him better equipped to represent the concerns of ordinary people. People outside the Beltway are going to be alarmed when they hear about these serious accusations against the Secretary of State. ). A backlash is building as GOP lawmakers get upbraided ( upbraid 指责 verb. to forcefully or angrily tell someone they should not have done a particular thing and criticize them for having done it: In newspaper articles she consistently upbraided those in authority who overstepped their limits. ) by constituents back home. "Things are happening so fast and furiously," Republican Rep. Nicole Malliotakis said. "We need to take a step back and make sure that we're doing things in a way that we are rooting out the waste, the fraud and the abuse and the mismanagement, making programs efficient but not resulting in unintended consequences." Even when government is working, financed and fully staffed, things can go badly wrong — the botched response to Hurricane Katrina in 2005 and the comically mismanaged Obamacare website come to mind. But when the government is being deliberately desecrated ( desecrate to damage or show no respect towards something holy or very much respected: The mosque/shrine was desecrated by vandals. It's a crime to desecrate the country's flag. ), disasters are all but guaranteed. 11. "To be carded 检查证件, 查验证件, 检查身份证, 要身份证" means to be asked for identification, such as when entering a bar. "We all got carded". card to ask someone to show you a document, especially an identity card, in order to prove how old they are. He loved to tell the story how he was recently carded at the train station when he asked for the senior citizen rate. If we can move forward to a fully carded work force, that would make a huge difference. carded Asked to show one's ID to prove that they are legally old enough to be in a particular place or doing a specific thing. I'm 30 years old, but I look so young that I get carded all the time. We'll never be able to get into the bar without being carded! I can't get carded with this crappy fake ID—they'll know immediately that it's not legit! carded and proofed 验明正身 mod. [of an ID card] examined to determine whether one has reached the legal drinking age. Dave got carded at the party even though he is thirty and looks it. As soon as we were proofed, we got in and got some brews. misspent youth 浪费的青春: the time when one is young and doing things that are not considered wise or proper. the period when one is young and spend's one's time doing foolish, bad, or frivolous things. someone who had a misspent youth wasted their time or behaved badly when they were young – often used humorously She recalled behaving recklessly during her misspent youth. He enjoys telling stories of his misspent youth. You said you wanted to make up for your misspent youth. narc 缉毒警察, 缉毒人员 (nark 通风报信) A police detective who enforces drug laws is called a narc. Narcs often work in airports with dogs specially trained to smell various illegal drugs. The word narc is slang shorthand for "narcotics agent," a federal agent or police officer who specializes in laws dealing with illegal drugs. Narc is sometimes also used to mean "police informant," someone who secretly gives inside information to the police, informing on others who are engaging in illegal activity. This second meaning is more often spelled "nark." 12. Yellowjackets: The Showtime TV series follows an amateur high school soccer team in the late '90s whose plane crashes into an Ontario forest on their way to a national competition. While sworn to secrecy as suburban adults, flashbacks reveal the horrific and gritty ordeals the characters undertake to ensure their survival — from the extremities of ritual sacrifice to the mundanity of period rags. In episode five, the main characters have finally been in each other's company for long enough that their cycles sync up. While still holding onto hope that they'll be found and rescued, they are forced to get resourceful to pass the time. Makeshift pads are fashioned from torn up, salvaged clothing that survived the wreck. The girls take turns stewing them in pots, stirring the scraps with a stick to sterilise and reuse again, without censoring the deep red hues that bubble in boiling water. "Bloody soldiers on the left, and breakfast on the right, okay? Don't mess them up like Travis did," joked teammate Akilah about one of the three guys who survived the crash with them. The scenes are short but there, and not only add to the realism 真实性 of the situation, but set up vital parts of the plot. Travis accuses his co-hunter Nat of scaring off prey with her menstrual scent, and the naive justifications and banter of the teenage boy star sets the foundation of a long-term relationship between the two. Meanwhile, team leader Jackie groans and pouts when prodded awake in the morning, complaining of cramps as she begrudgingly wriggles off her mattress. A few hours later, her best friend Shauna dips a rag in the blood of a butchered deer to mask her pregnancy from sleeping with Jackie's boyfriend the night before their fateful flight. 13. black-hearted evil, malicious, or wicked In the film, the greedy princes fighting for the throne are only slightly less cunning and black-hearted than their fatherdark-hearted Malevolent; cold and cruel. screwball 怪人 I. used to describe a type of film in which there are funny characters and silly situations. Screwball comedy is silly and eccentric in an amusing and harmless way. ...a remake of a '50s classic screwball comedy. a screwball comedy. Anora, a screwball comedy-drama about a sex worker who marries a Russian oligarch’s son, has come away from the 97th annual Academy Awards with the biggest prizes of the night: Best Picture, Best Actress, Best Director, Best Editing and Best Original Screenplay. II. a person who behaves in a strange and funny way. If you say that someone is a screwball, you mean that they do strange or crazy things. rapprochement [rəˈprɒʃmɒ̃] 关系回春, 关系回暖, 交好 I. (especially in international affairs) an establishment or resumption of harmonious relations. "there were signs of a growing rapprochement between the two countries". Waltz's comment underscores the US' position that the war must end no matter what as Trump races toward a rapprochement with Russian President Vladimir Putin after falsely blaming Zelensky for the unprovoked invasion. II. an agreement reached by opposing groups or people: There are signs of (a) rapprochement between the warring factions. calamitous [kəˈlamɪtəs] adj involving calamity; catastrophic or disastrous. causing great damage or suffering: The bank went bust, with calamitous consequences for global markets. a calamitous war. "such calamitous events as fires, hurricanes, and floods". 13. shake someone down 勒索钱财, 敲诈钱财, 要钱, 逼着给钱 to get money from someone by using threats or tricks. to get money from someone by using threats. to force someone to give you money: He was accused of shaking down small business owners in his district. They throw big parties to shake down sponsors. They tried to shake him down for five bucks. shake someone/somewhere down 找遍, 翻遍, 搜遍, 搜身 to search a person or place carefully, usually in order to find things that are stolen or illegal: We can't shake down the whole building - only the suspect's apartment. shake down 正常运转, 稳定下来, 安定下来 to become organized or established after a period of change. if a new system or situation shakes down, it begins to work normally: The new IT network is still causing delays but is expected to shake down by year end. Give the new arrangements time to shake down - I'm sure they'll be OK. to pip someone at the post = pip sb to the post 险胜, 最后时刻被胜过, 最后时刻被打败 I.  beat somebody in a race, competition, etc. by only a small amount or at the last moment. If someone is pipped at the post or pipped to the post they are just beaten in a competition or in a race to achieve something. To overcome a prominent competitor, gaining their position, especially by making a smart, sudden move. To defeat or succeed over someone by a very narrow margin or at the final, crucial moment, especially in a race, competition, or athletic event. The favoured runner held the lead for the majority of the race, but a relatively unknown competitor pipped him to the post in the final 100 metres. It appears the young candidate is set to pip his competitor to the post for his seat in parliament, which would make him the youngest candidate from this constituency to do so in nearly 60 years. I didn't want us to be pipped to the post. II. To overcome a strong competitor in a sporting event, especially by gaining a small advantage at the last decisive moment. be left at the post 拉的远远的, 完败, 没有胜的机会, 从一开始就败了, 一败涂地 I. To be beaten from the beginning of a competition or race. To be unlikely to succeed in a competition from the outset. The other girls in my heat were so fast that I was left at the post. I truly thought that candidate would be left at the post. I can't believe she's been doing so well in the polls. I thought my project for the Science Fair was pretty good—until I saw everybody else's. I was left at the post pretty much immediately. II (idiomatic, by extension) To be completely overwhelmed or dominated. note: The image here is of a racehorse that fails to leave the starting post along with its rivals. chipper 精力旺盛的, 活蹦乱跳的, 兴高采烈, 精力充沛的 cheerful and lively. very happy. happy and energetic: You seem mighty chipper this morning - what's up? "Eugene was feeling chipper". Why are you so chipper? Or don't you have a blood sacrifice between your legs like the rest of us. get in someone's pants = get inside someone's pants (idiomatic, colloquial) To have sex with someone, especially for the first time. To have sex with one. (Usually said of the intention or expectation.) I've stopped going to the clubs around town. They're just filled guys trying to get into your pants. You will never get into Jenna's pants, dude. She's way too good for you. Did you finally do it with Bill? I mean, he has been trying to get into your pants for years! 14. magnanimous [mæɡˈnæn.ɪ.məs] 优雅大方的, 谦和的, 谦逊的, 谦虚的, 不摆架子的, 不气势凌人的, 胜不骄败不馁的 very kind and generous towards an enemy or someone you have defeated. generous or forgiving, especially towards a rival or less powerful person. "she should be magnanimous in victory". The team's manager was magnanimous in victory, and praised the losing team. generous and kind, esp. toward a competitor or enemy. If you are magnanimous, you behave kindly and generously towards someone, especially after defeating them or being treated badly by them. I was prepared to be magnanimous, prepared to feel compassion for him. He was a man capable of magnanimous gestures. The Yankees' manager was magnanimous in defeat, praising Seattle for its fine play. up-lifting 提气的, 让人神清气爽的, 提神醒脑的, 振奋精神的 inspiring happiness, optimism, or hope. making someone feel better. positive in a way that encourages the improvement of a person’s mood or spirit: uplifting words/music. For me it was a marvellously uplifting performance. "an uplifting story of triumph over adversity". Nat rummages into the tissue and pulls out a creepy-cute (possibly bird-themed) tabletop AROMA DIFFUSER. It's ylang-ylang... with a hint of gardenia. Subtropical florals are very uplifting. 15. d-bag = DOUCHEBAG noun DEROGATORY INFORMAL an obnoxious or contemptible person (typically used of a man). "that guy was a total d-bag". an obnoxious, offensive, or disgusting person. an unpleasant person: Don't waste your time on that douchebag. So there are benefits to looking through his feed. That's how Taylor, 21, avoided a total d-bag. Well, uh, my contact can access the files, but he's being a bit of a D-bag. Who is this person, exactly? We only know each other by our Citizen Detective chat handles. He's mad at me because I didn't tell him that he was stealing a police file, so now he wants to meet in public to "discuss" the terms of the exchange. Oh, we'll meet all right. conga [ˈkɒŋ.ɡə] I. a Latin American dance in which a chain of people hold each other around the waist and follow the leader around using simple steps and kicks: Ecstatic fans did the conga in celebration. Conga line of Trump's sycophants shows us what weakness looks like. II. a piece of music for the conga (also conga drum) a tall, thin drum that is played with the hands and used in Latin American music: He played conga on Jay and the Americans' "She Cried". A pair of conga drums were among the instruments on display. kitsch [kɪtʃ] 俗艳的东西 showy art or cheap, decorative objects that are attractive to people who are thought to lack any appreciation of style or beauty. art, decorative objects, or design considered by many people to be ugly, without style, or false but enjoyed by other people, often because they are funny: His home's full of 1950s kitsch. She collects all sorts of kitsch, like these ceramic figurines of movie stars

Yellowjackets: 1. Jackie: You know I love you. And for real--you're kind of turning into a badass out here. Shauna smiles, legitimately flattered. You taught me how to be like this, you know. I was never brave until I met you. But the way you move through the world 一举一动, 行事作风("Move through the world" means to navigate and interact with your surroundings, including people and situations, as you go through life; essentially, it describes how someone lives their life and experiences the world around them, making choices and taking actions within it. move up in the world 地位提升 To elevate or improve one's social, political, and/or financial position in life; to become more successful than one was before. You're only going to truly move up in the world if you make a point of rubbing elbows with those of a higher social standing. It's unsurprising how quickly Sarah has moved up in the world—her tenacity and determination are matched only by her intelligence and talent. The Robinsons really moved up in the world after they won the lottery. )--it was always so... easy. So self-assured 自信的( confident in one's own abilities or character. having confidence in your own abilities: She moves with self-assured grace. The interview showed her as a self-assured and mature student. "a self-assured 16-year-old". ). You make people feel like things are going to be okay, just by showing up and being your dumb hot awesome self. At least you always did that for me. Jackie: Thanks. But I'm still not sticking a knife through that fucking deer knee. 2. SHAUNA: Honey, have you ever heard of mutually assured destruction( Mutually assured destruction (MAD) 互相伤害, 玉石俱焚 is a military strategy that assumes that both sides in a conflict would be destroyed if either side used nuclear weapons. The strategy was developed during the Cold War to deter the use of nuclear weapons. It's a doctrine of military strategy and national security policy which posits that a full-scale use of nuclear weapons by an attacker on a nuclear-armed defender with second-strike capabilities would result in the complete annihilation of both the attacker and the defender. It is based on the theory of rational deterrence, which holds that the threat of using strong weapons against the enemy prevents the enemy's use of those same weapons. The strategy is a form of Nash equilibrium in which, once armed, neither side has any incentive to initiate a conflict or to disarm. The result may be a nuclear peace, in which the presence of nuclear weapons decreases the risk of crisis escalation, since parties will seek to avoid situations that could lead to the use of nuclear weapons. Proponents of nuclear peace theory therefore believe that controlled nuclear proliferation may be beneficial for global stability. Critics argue that nuclear proliferation increases the chance of nuclear war through either deliberate or inadvertent use of nuclear weapons, as well as the likelihood of nuclear material falling into the hands of violent non-state actors.  )? CALLIE: I basically invented it. SHAUNA: Good. Then let's chase down exactly what you're proposing. First of all, do you have any idea how much divorce lawyers cost? We're talking, five, six hundred dollars an hour. There's about twelve thousand bucks in your college fund right now, and yes, I do wish that number sounded less pathetic, but regardless--you can kiss it goodbye. Speaking of that curfew you're so eager to be free of, get ready for a different kind of cramp 禁锢 on your weekends, because there is no one lonelier than a recent divorcé. You'll be spending Friday nights at your dad's sorry little apartment, eating cold pizza on the couch you know he cries into. And after a few months of that? Just when you start thinking, "Hey, dad's taking a little better care of himself lately?" Get ready. That's when he'll be coming to you for dating advice. Which I don't doubt you'll be able to give him, since those girls'll be about your age. But hey - I - guess you're the one holding the trump card here. 3. TAISSA: I'm with Natalie. You need to get over here. Travis is dead, and-- now, to Natalie. She says she already knows. NATALIE: What? How? TAISSA: Misty called her. Misty leans in, excited at the mention of her own name. NATALIE: That conniving, poodle-haired little freak. Give me that. On Misty, taking in her teammates' unconcealed contempt (不加掩饰的鄙视蔑视 unconcealed not kept hidden. An unconcealed emotion is one that someone has made no attempt to hide. His message was received with unconcealed anger. ...their unconcealed dislike of each other. He speaks of his children with unconcealed pride at what they have accomplished. "Open carry" refers to the practice of wearing an unconcealed weapon in public. ). Her smile slips away... Her expression turns to a look of dark determination. And we shudder to think what a scorned 被看不起的, 被鄙视的 Misty ( scorn 看不起, 鄙视 a very strong feeling of no respect for someone or something that you think is stupid or has no value. to treat with a great lack of respect, or to refuse something because you think it is wrong or not acceptable: He was scorned by his classmates for his bad behavior. She has nothing but scorn for the new generation of politicians. Why do you always pour/heap scorn on (= criticize severely and unfairly) my suggestions? ) might have in store for her old teammates. 4. séance [ˈseɪ.ɒns] 招魂 a meeting where people try to talk with dead people. a meeting where people try to communicate with the dead, often with the help of someone who claims to have special powers to do this. a meeting at which people attempt to make contact with the dead, especially through the agency of a medium. They're holding a séance this evening. occult [əˈkʌlt] the study of magic or mysterious powers. The magazine is a quarterly (= one that is published four times a year) dedicated to tales of the supernatural, horror, and occult. Jackie: Okay, you guys, I just had a brainstorm. We should have a seance. TAISSA: That's a terrible idea. Also, we're not in middle school. Jackie: But remember how fun this shit used to be? Besides, maybe if we can laugh about this, then it would help. Laura Lee: The occult is no laughing matter 不是用来开玩笑的. Jackie: It's not the occult, Laura Lee. It's a game. Come on, Shauna, tell them. It'll be fun. Shauna: Um... well, I mean, it's not like we have anything better to do. And maybe this dead guy can give us some life advice. cauterize [ˈkɔːtərʌɪz] 火烙, 烤焦, 烙铁烙 verb I. burn the skin or flesh of (a wound) with a heated instrument or caustic substance in order to stop bleeding or to prevent infection. to burn body tissue using heat or a chemical, to stop an injury from bleeding or getting infected, or to remove harmful cells: The quickest solution is to cauterize the wound. He had persistent nose bleeds until he had a blood vessel cauterised. "I'll freeze the hand and cauterize the wound". She saves the life of Ben Scott, the assistant coach, by amputating and cauterizing his mangled 砸烂的, 砸成肉酱的 leg. wiki: Cauterization (or cauterisation, or cautery) is a medical practice or technique of burning a part of a body to remove or close off a part of it. It destroys some tissue in an attempt to mitigate bleeding and damage, remove an undesired growth, or minimize other potential medical harm, such as infections when antibiotics are unavailable. The main forms of cauterization used today are electrocautery and chemical cautery—both are, for example, prevalent in cosmetic removal of warts and stopping nosebleeds. Cautery can also mean the branding of a human ( Human branding or stigmatizing is the process by which a mark, usually a symbol or ornamental pattern, is burned into the skin of a living person, with the intention of the resulting scar making it permanent. This is performed using a hot or very cold branding iron. It therefore uses the physical techniques of livestock branding on a human, either with consent as a form of body modification; or under coercion, as a punishment or to identify an enslaved, oppressed, or otherwise controlled person. It may also be practiced as a "rite of passage", e.g. within a tribe, or to signify membership of or acceptance into an organization. ). II. to stop something from causing someone to feel emotion, especially a negative emotion: Years of silence cauterized their feelings about the war but these wounds have now reopened

 drape (整面墙的) VS curtain (只遮住窗户的) VS blinds (好多slat组成的百叶窗) VS shade (一块fabric 可以拉起来的): Sometimes people cover windows with "curtains", "blinds", or a window "shade". I'm guessing that is what they are talking about. In that case "the shade is opened" means that the "shade" is not covering the window. Open one's shades" means to open the window blinds or curtains in a room, essentially letting in natural light by raising the covering on a window. raise the curtain = lift the curtain [on sth] I. 揭幕. 揭晓. Make something public, disclose In an attempt to head off a public relations disaster regarding his acceptance of donations, the governor decided to raise the curtain at a press conference. We won't know what the new design is until they lift the curtain on it. II. Begin or start It's time to raise the curtain on this new project, everyone, so let's not waste any time! After a few delays, the construction crew was finally ready to raise the curtain. It's time to raise the curtain, guys—start shoveling. 1. A roller shutter (百叶门, 百叶窗), roller door or sectional overhead door is a type of door or window shutter consisting of many horizontal slats (or sometimes bars or web systems) hinged together. The door is raised to open it and lowered to close it. On large doors, the action may be motorized. It provides protection against wind and rain. In shutter form, it is used in front of a window and protects the window from vandalism and burglary attempts.  In some parts of the world, roller shutters are subsidized 政府补助, 补贴 by local governments due to the inherent security benefits. In areas that are frequently exposed to inclement weather( inclement I. Unpleasantly cold or wet. Stormy: inclement weather极端天气. II. Showing no clemency; unmerciful. ), roller shutters are used as a method of insulation and can protect windows against hail damage. 2. shutter 快门 I. the part of a camera that opens temporarily to allow light to reach the film when a photograph is being taken. II. a wooden cover on the outside of a window that prevents light or heat from going into a room or heat from leaving it. a hinged doorlike cover, often louvred 百叶窗式的 and usually one of a pair, for closing off a window. Shutters 防晒窗 usually come in pairs and are hung like doors on hinges. III. 防盗窗. 铁栅栏. 铁栏杆. 金属栏杆. 防护栏. 卷闸. 卷帘门. a metal covering that protects the windows and entrance of a shop from thieves when it is closed. verb. I. to close the shutters covering a window: People are shuttering their windows and barring their doors. All the houses had their windows shuttered. II. to close down a business or activity: Some automakers are temporarily shuttering plants in response to falling demand. I am thinking of shuttering my Facebook account for good. shuttered adj. I. with their shutters (= metal covers that protect windows) closed: Shops are closed and shuttered on Sundays. Flights were cancelled, factories shuttered, and millions of people were left without power. II. (of a business or activity) closed permanently: Money from the loan programme could be used to reopen a shuttered 关门歇业的 factory. Residents questioned what the city would do with the shuttered buildings. III. having shutters (= wooden covers on the outside of a window): The shuttered cottages have four-poster beds and private outdoor hot tubs. narrow, twisting streets fringed with trees, ivy-draped stone walls and shuttered farmhouses. put up the shutter 关门, 关店 to close business at the end of the day or permanently. 3. louvre = US louver [ˈluːvə] 百叶窗 I. any of a set of horizontal parallel slats in a door or window, sloping outwards to throw off rain and admit air. a door or window with flat sloping pieces of wood, metal, or glass across it to allow light and air to come in while keeping rain out. II. = louvre boards. the slats together with the frame supporting them. louvred  = US louvered 装了百叶窗的 describing a door or window with flat sloping pieces of wood, metal or glass across it to allow light and air to come in while keeping rain out: a louvred door/window. She fiddled with the angle of the louvred blinds. It was a world of open flywire windows, breeze-catching louvres, sweating crowds in pubs, creaky 吱吱呀呀的 ceiling fans, and office workers in short-sleeved shirts and straw fedoras.

 Keir Starmer meets Donald Trump: assiduous planning results in deft diplomacy: Nevertheless, as part of the same Q&A, Starmer also took the opportunity to correct Trump's claim that European countries that provided aid to Ukraine "get their money back." NBC News reported: "We don't get the money back," Trump added, before blaming former President Joe Biden for not giving military aid in the form of a loan. "We're not getting all of [our aid back]," Starmer told Trump, adding: "Quite a bit of ours was given, was gifted. There were some loans but mainly it was gifted actually." Observers would be forgiven for feeling a sense of déjà vu. After all, it was earlier this week when Trump, in the same room, sat alongside another foreign leader and peddled eerily similar incorrect claims. The Republican falsely insisted that the United States had spent $350 billion in aid to Ukraine, while Europe had spent only $100 billion, adding that European countries would get their money back. It fell to ( fall to someone 落在...头上 to be or become the duty or job of someone: The worst job fell to me. it falls to you formal it is your duty. If a responsibility, duty, or opportunity falls to someone, it becomes their responsibility, duty, or opportunity. He's been very unlucky that no chances have fallen to him. It fell to me to get rid of them. It falls to me to thank you for all you have done for the association. fall to I. to begin doing something energetically. If someone falls to doing something, they start doing it. When she had departed, they fell to fighting among themselves. There was a lot of work to do, so they fell to immediately. II. to drop to a particular lower level: The average price of these homes fell to £409,000 last month. The unemployment rate fell to 5 percent in September, a level not seen in nearly a year. ) French President Emmanuel Macron to interrupt his American counterpart to explain — in English — that Trump's claims were plainly untrue. The Republican didn't appear to believe the facts as presented, but reality remained unchanged: Trump's claims were false, while Macron's explanation was correct. O'Donnell added that the American president was "humiliated and exposed in a way that no previous president ever could be because no previous president would be pathological ( I. (of a person) unable to control part of their behaviour; unreasonable. (of a person) unreasonable, or unable to control part of his or her behavior: a pathological fear of heights. a pathological liar. I've got a pathological fear of heights. Anthony's a pathological liar. II. involving or relating to pathology (= the scientific study of disease): These pathological findings are in agreement with clinical studies. Dr. Katzman commenced clinical and pathological studies of elderly patients who were exhibiting signs of dementia. III. relating to or caused by a disease: a pathological condition/complaint. ) enough to try to tell a lie like that right in front of the person he's lying about. And no previous president could possibly be stupid enough to try to tell a lie like that." After Trump suffered a similar embarrassment with Starmer, O'Donnell said, "There is a kind of person whose humiliation reflex simply doesn't work." Starmer followed Macron's lead in his visit earlier this week by correcting Trump during his remarks to say that Europe had mainly gifted its financial support to Ukraine and had not given most of the aid in the form of loans. Starmer trumpeted the "special relationship" between the United Kingdom and the US in defense and in business, but also directed some good-natured barbs at current administration officials, wryly commenting on the "buzz" in Washington these days and speaking about a new leader in Washington whom some love and others "love to hate". (He joked that this was the new ambassador, Peter Mandelson, but the oblique reference to Trump was lost on few.) "We share the view that our best days lie ahead. And, you know, taking out a chainsaw isn't quite my style," said Starmer, clearly referring to Elon Musk, who has riled the British establishment by speaking out in favour of the far-right Reform UK party. "But we are stripping away red tape and bureaucracy. We are reforming permitting, getting things built, reducing barriers to investment and growth. And we're open for business." Like Emmanuel Macron, Starmer needs to show the US president that he can stand up to him – and also show his constituency ( 选民 the people in a particular area of a country who are represented by an elected official, or the area: Republican constituencies are mainly in suburban areas. ) that he isn't willing to sacrifice his values in order to make a deal. Macron walked that tightrope earlier this week, but it didn't yield the main prize: the promise of a US backstop to European defense against Russia. Perhaps Starmer will have better luck with a concrete offer on defense spending. In manner, Macron manifested his eight years in office (four of which were already spent with Trump in the White House). Starmer has had a mere eight months. But it was a challenge, judged in its own immediate terms, that the prime minister met. Raising the curtain ( raise the curtain = lift the curtain [on sth] I. 揭幕. 揭晓. Make something public, disclose In an attempt to head off a public relations disaster regarding his acceptance of donations, the governor decided to raise the curtain at a press conference. We won't know what the new design is until they lift the curtain on it. II. Begin or start It's time to raise the curtain on this new project, everyone, so let's not waste any time! After a few delays, the construction crew was finally ready to raise the curtain. It's time to raise the curtain, guys—start shoveling.), in a highly untypical coup de théâtre, Starmer flourished – as few can – a letter from the King to give to the president, and then effectively forced Trump to read it on camera and agree to the invitation enclosed within. Starmer of course knew he was nudging an open door ( "Nudge an open door" means to try and encourage or influence something that is already happening or readily available, essentially doing something unnecessary because the path is already clear; it implies a pointless action as the outcome is already guaranteed.): much came down to assiduous ( assiduous [əˈsɪdʒuəs] 细致的, 认真的, 勤勤恳恳的, 工作认真细致的 hard-working and thorough. showing hard work, care, and attention to detail. Someone who is assiduous works hard or does things very thoroughly. ...an assiduous student. Podulski had been assiduous in learning his adopted language. They planned their careers and worked assiduously to see them achieved. assiduous research/efforts. an assiduous student. The government has been assiduous in the fight against inflation. sedulous [ˈsedʒələs] constant or persistent in use or attention; assiduous; diligent careful and using a lot of effort. showing continued hard work, effort, and determination. His work is characterized by precision and a sedulous attention to detail. It was agreed that the few students sedulous enough to read the book deserved top marks for diligence. ) preparation. The British Embassy, under a finally confirmed ambassador Peter Mandelson, worked overtime to choreograph and lubricate. Starmer had been wise in contradicting 反驳 Trump only indirectly. Nothing could be gained – as president Zelenskyy already demonstrated – from doing so publicly. So early an offer of a state visit to the UK ran the risk of appearing desperate, but was mitigated by its also being "unprecedented" as the second to be offered to Trump. A word recently worn smooth 磨平了 ( the state of an object that has been used or handled so much over time that its surface becomes very smooth. something has been worn down or flattened by use or exposure to the elements, resulting in a smooth surface. ) by over-use, there was nevertheless another precedent set in the suggestion of a pre-state visit visit between Trump and the king. With this president, more than any other, royal diplomacy is a critical national asset. The actors Trump primarily wishes to galvanise are European leaders, recalcitrants (recalcitrant [rɪˈkælsɪtrənt] 不听话的, 不服从命令的,  I. ​formal refusing to obey orders. If you describe someone or something as recalcitrant, you mean that they are unwilling to obey orders or are difficult to deal with. The danger is that recalcitrant local authorities will reject their responsibilities. He had a knack for coaxing even the most recalcitrant engine to life. ...the government's recalcitrance over introducing even the smallest political reform.  a recalcitrant child. II. not operating or acting the way you want and therefore difficult to deal with. a recalcitrant computer. Former party leader Bill Hassell was scathing in his assessment of the party he led in WA in the 1980s, suggesting a dire future without major remedial action. "If the recalcitrants in the Liberal Party are not prepared to get out of the way, or get out, we're going to die as a party, it's as serious as that," Mr Hassell told ABC Radio Perth.) he thinks should do more to keep their own peace. For Macron to have been told that Putin would accept Nato forces policing the peace was scene-changing, but the only witness to the veracity of that news was Trump, who exhales untruths as easily as he breathes. The Russians soon denied it. Thus has passed the most potentially difficult meeting of a prime minister and a president since Suez. Nothing else comes close. Cliche – eggshells, tightropes – proliferated 充斥 in previews. When Starmer was last at the White House, in September, he had asked Biden for a meeting about Ukraine and received it. However unsatisfactory the outcome, public face was maintained 脸面维护住了, 脸面保住了. Trump has the ability – and the form – to have humiliated in a way which would permanently have scarred Starmer. That he did the opposite ought not to distract from the vulnerability of the supplicant ( a person who asks a god or someone who is in a position of power for something in a humble way. A supplicant is a person who prays to God or respectfully asks an important person to help them or to give them something that they want very much. He flung himself down in the flat submissive posture of a mere supplicant. supplicate [ˈsʌp.lɪ.keɪt] 恳求, 祈求, 乞求, 跪求 to ask for something in a humble way: I knew I could not go on supplicating for more. supplication the act of asking a god or someone who is in a position of power for something in a humble way: Inside the temple, worshippers were kneeling in supplication.). Power plays 耍弄权术, 争权夺势 sit ill with Starmer, but he nonetheless ventured two corrections from his armchiar, one to a statement made by the president and another to one made by the vice-president. The subsequent praise for Starmer's negotiating tenacity from Trump, that much-vaunted ( vaunted [ˈvɔːn.tɪd] 赞誉的, 表扬的 praised often in a way that is considered to be more than acceptable or reasonable: His (much) vaunted new plan has been shown to have serious weaknesses. ) artist of the deal, was as priceless – and unfamiliar – as the following morning's front pages. The extraordinary moment underscored the strained dynamics of Monday's talks. While Trump and Macron otherwise appeared convivial ( convivial [kənˈvɪv.i.əl] friendly and making you feel happy and welcome. pleasant and friendly in manner or attitude. Convivial people or occasions are pleasant, friendly, and relaxed. ...looking forward to a convivial evening. The atmosphere was quite convivial. ...the conviviality of the restaurantThe talks ended on a convivial note. a convivial atmosphere/host. conviviality [kənˌvɪv.iˈæl.ə.ti] the quality of being friendly and making people feel happy and welcome: He was known for his conviviality as a host. Eating should take place in an atmosphere of conviviality. ) and willing to engage on the future of Ukraine, the backdrop to the talks has been Trump's sometimes false statements about the war effort. "Just so you understand, Europe is loaning the money to Ukraine. They're getting their money back," Trump began as he was preparing to make the case for a new deal to secure Ukraine's mineral revenues. That is when Macron reached over to grab Trump's arm to interject. "No, in fact, to be frank, we paid. We paid 60 per cent of the total effort. It was like the US: loans, guarantees, grants," he said, as Trump smiled ruefully. 

Wednesday, 26 February 2025

payday loan 小额贷款; saddle, straddle, ride pillion; garnish = garnishee; intonation, cadence, inflection;

用法学习: 1. munted [ˈmʌntɪd] adj I. informal British under the influence or alcohol or drugs. drunk or intoxicated. "they have constant issues with drivers turning up munted". II. informal New Zealand (of an object) destroyed or ruined. badly damaged; ruined. Absolutely destroyed, smashed or broken. "work to remove the munted footbridge—an icon of the Canterbury earthquakes—is to begin this week". First used in print and television news in association with the Christchurch earthquake. i.e The city is completely munted. III. New Zealand slang (of a person) abnormal or peculiar. drop kick I. (rugby, Australian rules football, American football, Canadian football) A kick made by dropping the ball on the ground and kicking it as it bounces up.  II. (Australia, slang, derogatory) An insignificant, contemptible or unfashionable person; a loser; used as a general insult. III. (professional wrestling) A kick to the opponent made by leaping into the air and kicking with both feet before dropping to the ground. verb. I. (transitive) To drop (a ball) and kick it after it hits the ground. II. (transitive, informal) To charge towards (an object or person) and jump to attack the target with both legs extended. III. (intransitive) To perform such a charge and jump. 2. Effeminacy or male femininity is the embodiment of feminine traits in boys or men, particularly those considered untypical of men or masculinity. These traits include roles, stereotypes, behaviors, and appearances that are socially associated with girls and women. Gay men are often stereotyped as being effeminate [ɪˈfem.ɪ.nət] 女气的 ( effeminization 女性化)( [disapproval] An effeminate man behaves or looks similar to a woman. If you describe a man or boy as effeminate, you think he behaves, looks, or sounds like a woman or girl. ...a skinny, effeminate guy in lipstick and earrings. With his long dark eyelashes, he looked almost feminine. The current style in evening wear is soft, romantic, and feminine. Her clothes are always very feminine. His voice was curiously high-pitched, reedy, almost effeminate. He's got a very effeminate manner/voice. feminine [femɪnɪn] I. 女性的. Feminine qualities and things relate to or are considered typical of women, in contrast to men. Women all over the world are abandoning traditional feminine roles. ...a manufactured ideal of feminine beauty. II. Someone or something that is feminine has qualities that are considered typical of women, especially being pretty or gentle. I've always been attracted to very feminine, delicate women. The bedroom has a light, feminine look. III. In some languages, a feminine noun, pronoun, or adjective has a different form from a masculine or neuter one, or behaves in a different way. Long hair has traditionally been regarded as a sign of femininity.), and vice versa. However, femininity, masculinity, and other forms of gender expression are independent of sexual orientation. Femboy ([ˈfɛmbɔɪ] ) is a slang term that refers to males, usually cisgender, who express themselves with traditionally feminine behaviours, or—especially in the variant spelling femboi—to LGBTQ people of any gender identity who affect a "soft" masculine look. As an Internet aesthetic, this may be through the use of jewelry, wearing feminine clothing and makeup, or expressing feminine behavioural qualities. Femboy can be used as both a sexual and non-sexual term; it does not denote a specific sexual orientation or gender role. 3. gaff 支撑内裤, 掩护式内裤( Another intelligence official boasted that genital surgery allowed him "to wear leggings or bikinis without having to wear a gaff under it."): blow the gaffe/gaff If you blow the gaffe or blow the gaff, you tell someone something that other people wanted you to keep secret. all over the gaff (UK, informal) All over the place. gaff 垫体, 内垫, 阴部垫: (LGBTQ) A type of tight, panty-like underwear worn to hold the penis and testicles tucked backwards and make one's genital region look smooth, as if one had a vulva. Put simply, a gaff is a special type of compression underwear. The main purpose of a gaff is to help give a flatter appearance to the pelvic area, which can help some transfeminine folks feel more comfortable and confident in their day-to-day life. A gaff is a type of underwear that's worn to create a smoother appearance in the pelvic area. It's often used by transgender women and transfeminine people, but anyone can wear one. Gender-affirming undergarments can be a huge benefit to those who are looking to support their trans femme identity and achieve a more female look in public. Put simply, a gaff is a special type of compression underwear. The main purpose of a gaff is to help give a flatter appearance to the pelvic area, which can help some transfeminine folks feel more comfortable and confident in their day-to-day life. Gaffs are tucking underwear that can be used by anyone looking to have a smoother appearance in their pelvic area, regardless of how they choose to identify. Many transgender women, drag queens, trans femmes, and gender non-conforming people choose to use a gaff either at home or out to get that smooth look. Having access to gender-affirming gear benefits your own sense of self, and for those who experience gender dysphoria in relation to the appearance of the body, it can help ease those feelings. Whether you’re choosing to wear one in your day-to-day life or when you're killing it on stage, gaffs can help clothing fit in a way that is more gender-affirming and comfortable. fiefdom [ˈfiːf.dəm] = fief [fiːf] 领地, 封地 I. an area of land, especially one that is rented and paid for by work. II. an area or type of activity that is controlled by someone. an area over which a person or organization exerts authority or influence The stage is his personal fiefdom. "The fundamental problem with founders is they tend to treat it as a fiefdom," Ms Bird said. "They think it's their business, their show and you don't need people to tell you otherwise." 3. "Ready to tear 气势汹汹" means to be prepared to act with intense energy, force, or aggression, essentially ready to "rip into" something or someone, often implying a strong emotional state like anger or excitement, and signifying an intention to perform an action with great vigor or determination. down I. 比分落后(反义词: up). Having a lower score than an opponent. They are down by 3–0 with just 5 minutes to play. He was down by a bishop and a pawn after 15 moves. At 5–1 down, she produced a great comeback to win the set on a tiebreak. II. (baseball, cricket, colloquial, following the noun modified) Out. Two down and one to go in the bottom of the ninth. III. Finished (of a task); defeated or dealt with (of an opponent or obstacle); elapsed (of time). Often coupled with to go (remaining). Two down and three to go. Ten minutes down ...过后, 过去了, 过了...分钟了 and nothing's happened yet. III. = down pat. Thoroughly practiced, learned or memorised; mastered. It's two weeks until opening night and our lines are still not down 搞定 yet. IV. (colloquial, with "on") Negative about; hostile to. She's been down on 有敌意, 不喜欢, 讨厌, 不爱吃 clams since a bad case of food poisoning; she's lost her appetite for them. V. (not comparable, military, aviation, slang, of an aircraft) 歇菜了. Mechanically failed, collided, shot down, or otherwise suddenly unable to fly. We have a chopper down near the river. VI. Inoperable; out of order; out of service. The system is down. VII. Sick, wounded, or damaged: (normally in the combination 'down with') Sick or ill. He is down 病了 with the flu. VIII. 受伤. 被杀. 死掉了. (not comparable, military, law enforcement, slang, of a person) Wounded and unable to move normally, or killed. We have an officer down outside the suspect's house. There are three soldiers down and one walking wounded. down but not out (idiomatic) Temporarily incapacitated but not permanently defeated. down bad I. (African-American Vernacular, slang) In a difficult situation, despondent. Walter was down bad after his wife had left him II. (slang, originally African-American Vernacular) Romantically or sexually attracted to someone at the expense of one's dignity. He was down bad 爱的卑微 over that disrespectful girl. 4. freeze out 孤立 behave in a hostile or obstructive way so as to exclude someone from something. "during a banquet, she completely froze out her husband". to make someone feel that they are not part of a group by being unfriendly towards that person, or to stop someone from being included in an arrangement or activity: be frozen out of I felt I was being frozen out of the discussions. After she raised her concerns, she found that colleagues were freezing her out. He believed that organizations like theirs were being frozen out. do someone over I. UK informal to attack someone violently: They said they'd do me over if I refused to drive the getaway car. II. beat someone up. "let's do them over and dump them somewhere". III. To do someone over means to hurt them badly, for example by hitting or kicking them. We could get someone to do him over, couldn't we? do something over I. to do something again because you did not do it well the first time: If she had the chance to do it over 重来, she would have hired a press secretary. The teacher told him to do the assignment over. II. INFORMAL BRITISH ransack a place, especially while searching for something worth stealing. If someone does a place over, they steal things or search the place and leave it very untidy. The door was open. They had done the place over. "her flat had been done over—the evidence was all too clear". do-over 重来 A do-over is an occasion when you do something again. We won't get a do-over on climate change.  This is a modern do-over of Stephen Spielberg's mid-1980s adventure series. An organization's tolerance to accommodate do-overs has a limit. 5. proficient 熟练掌握的, 熟练应用的 skilled and experienced. very skilled and experienced at something: proficient at sth/doing sth Consumers have become more proficient at shopping online. proficient in sth The government will help small businesses become proficient in the technologies they need to compete in the digital marketplacea proficient swimmer. She's proficient in two languages. It takes a couple of years of regular driving before you become proficient at it. After the plane crash, Travis and Natalie prove to be the most proficient with the hunting rifle and the two begin dating. A hookah 水烟 (also see other names), shisha, or waterpipe is a single- or multi-stemmed instrument for heating or vaporizing and then smoking either tobacco, flavored tobacco (often muʽassel), or sometimes cannabis, hashish and opium. The smoke is passed through a water basin—often glass-based—before inhalation. 6. puke VS vomit: The terms "puke" and "vomit" both refer to the act of expelling the contents of your stomach through your mouth, but they differ slightly in tone and usage. "Vomit" is the more formal and clinical term, often used in medical contexts or polite conversation to describe the physical process. "Puke," on the other hand, is casual, a bit crass, and carries a stronger sense of disgust or emphasis on the unpleasantness of it. You'd say "I vomited after eating something bad" if you're explaining it calmly, but "I puked my guts out" if you're stressing how awful it was. Essentially, they mean the same thing—stomach contents coming up—but "puke" packs more of a punchy, informal vibe. punchy I. If you describe something as punchy, you mean that it expresses its meaning in a forceful or effective way. expressing something effectively and with power, often using only a few words or short words: a short punchy presentation/speech. The article is written in his usual punchy style. A good way to sound confident is to use short punchy sentences. II. adding emphasis or excitement to something: The collection comes in a number of punchy colours. The band burst onto the scene with the fresh, laddish exuberance and punchy melodies of their debut album. III. (of a price) rather high; higher than is expected or usual: We put the house on the market at what was quite a punchy price, but it sold almost immediately. The restaurant has punchy pricing but enjoyable exclusivity. IV. US informal tired and confused, especially after dealing with a difficult situation: I'm a little bit punchy but I'm okay. 7. dexterous[ˈdɛkstərəs] 手巧的, 灵巧的, 熟练的, 敏捷的, 机敏的 I. having the ability to perform a difficult action quickly and skilfully with the hands: a dexterous movement. Baseball players have to be fast and dexterous. Raccoons have highly dexterous front feet that are shaped like human hands. II. having the ability to think quickly and effectively or to do something difficult extremely well: She was lively and dexterous intellectually. He is a dexterous debater who deals swiftly with interrogators. vocabulary: If you're dexterous, you're good with your hands. To be dexterous is an essential trait for knitters and sleight-of-hand magicians. The adjective dexterous often refers to skill and agility with the hands, but it can mean any skillful or clever physical movement. A kid's dexterous ball handling and footwork can aid him on the soccer field. Dexterous can also be used to describe mental skill and agility — like the dexterous handling of an uncomfortable situation at work. dexterity [dekˈster.ə.ti] I. the ability to perform a difficult action quickly and skilfully with the hands: with dexterity He caught the ball with great dexterity. Young children lack the dexterity to brush their teeth effectively. manual dexterity the ability to think quickly and effectively or do something difficult extremely well: with the dexterity of He answered the reporters' questions with all the dexterity of a politician. vocal dexterity The duo's vocal dexterity is something to behold. manual dexterity 手巧, 巧手 someone's ability to use the hands to perform a difficult action skilfully and quickly so that it looks easy. 8. obtuse [əbˈtjuːs, ɒbˈtjuːs] 迟钝的, 钝感的, 慢半拍的, 不敏感的 adj. I. annoyingly insensitive or slow to understand. stupid and slow to understand, or unwilling to try to understand: The answer's obvious - or are you being deliberately obtuse? "he wondered if the doctor was being deliberately obtuse". difficult to understand, especially deliberately so. Someone who is obtuse has difficulty understanding things, or makes no effort to understand them. I've really been very obtuse and stupid. Naivety bordering on obtuseness helped sustain his faith. "some of the lyrics are a bit obtuse". The playwright never says outright that the two men are lovers, but the queer subtext is hardly subtle. Only a wilfully obtuse 选择性不敏感 reader of Marlowe's text could miss the insinuation that these two men are more than just friends.  II. (of an angle) more than 90° and less than 180°. "an obtuse angle of 150°" transgressive 有违道德标准的, 不符合道德规范的, 违犯道德标准的, 有悖伦理纲常的 I. involving a violation of moral or social boundaries. Transgressive is used to describe actions that break a moral law or a rule of behaviour. To write and publish this poem was a daring, transgressive act. "the poets have well-earned reputations for transgressive behaviour as well as verse". "The text seems to be suggesting that this behaviour will stop now that Gaveston's dead, but it stops short of saying that the sexual transgression was actually between Gaveston and the king," Heyam says. In the centuries after Edward II's death, it became less risky for writers to insinuate that Edward II may have been sexually transgressive, but the invention of the printing press in the 15th Century cranked up the innuendo. II. relating to art or literature in which orthodox moral, social, and artistic boundaries are challenged by the representation of unconventional behaviour and the use of experimental forms. "the contrast of such transgressive films with their mainstream counterparts should be clear". III. (of a stratum) overlapping others unconformably, especially as a result of marine transgression. "this stage was markedly transgressive over a large part of Russia". tempestuous [temˈpes.tʃu.əs] 疾风暴雨似的 If something such as a relationship or time is tempestuous, it is full of strong emotions. If you describe a relationship or a situation as tempestuous, you mean that very strong and intense emotions, especially anger, are involved. For years, the couple's tempestuous relationship made the headlines. ...his brilliant but tempestuous career in British racing. They got divorced in 2010 after a tempestuous marriage. They finally stopped seeing each other, ending their tempestuous relationship. This relationship lasted until 1988, and according to Mathias, it was tempestuous, with conflicts over McKellen's success in acting versus Mathias's somewhat less-successful career.

intonation, cadence, inflection: intonation [ˌɪntəˈneɪʃn] 情绪起伏, 升降调, 音调起伏, 声音起伏 I. the rise and fall of the voice in speaking. the sound changes produced by the rise and fall of the voice when speaking, especially when this has an effect on the meaning of what is said: The end of a sentence that is not a question is usually marked by falling intonation 降调. "she spoke English with a German intonation". II. accuracy of pitch in playing or singing, or on a stringed instrument such as a guitar. "poor woodwind intonation at the opening". cadence [ˈkeɪdns] I. a modulation or inflection of the voice. the regular rise and fall of the voice: Cadence is usually the hardest aspect of a foreign language to adopt. It can be difficult to find the words and cadences to deliver your argument effectively. "his measured cadences never convey the character's underlying passion". II. the number of steps per minute taken when you are running or the number of turns per minute that your pedals (= the parts that you push down with your feet) make when you are cycling: The foot sensor measures stride length and cadence. In the beginning, the best way to improve speed is to boost pedalling cadence. III. a set of chords (= different notes played together) at the end of a piece of music: She incorporated cadences from gospel in her singing. Music theorists of the later eighteenth century paid new attention to prosody and rhythmic cadence. inflection = UK inflexion I. a change in or addition to the form of a word that shows a change in the way it is used in sentences: If you add the plural inflection "-s" to "dog" you get "dogs". "Gets," "got," and "gotten" are inflections of the verb "get." II. the way in which the sound of your voice changes during speech, for example when you emphasize particular words. His voice was low and flat, with almost no inflection 轻重变化, 轻重音. III. change in the quality of the voice, often showing an emotion: Phyllis replies without any particular inflection in her voice, "I guess I'm lazy." Cadence (about rhythm 韵律 流畅还是磕巴): This refers to the overall rhythm and flow of speech, including pauses and patterns of stress. It can affect the musicality and pacing of spoken language. For example, a speaker might have a smooth, flowing cadence or a choppy, abrupt one. Inflection (pitch change 以显示强调): This is the variation in pitch or tone within a word or phrase that helps convey meaning. Inflection can indicate emphasis, questions, emotions, or grammatical distinctions. For example, in English, raising the pitch at the end of a sentence often signals a question. Intonation (pitch variation 以表示不同情绪): This is the broader pattern of pitch changes across a sentence or phrase. It contributes to the speaker's intent, such as expressing surprise, confidence, or sarcasm. Different languages and dialects have unique intonation patterns. In short, cadence is about rhythm, inflection is about pitch changes within words, and intonation is about pitch variation across a sentence.

 garnish [ˈgɑ:niʃ] 装点, 装饰 I. to decorate; trim. a coat that was garnished with a fur collar. II. (Cookery) to add something to (food) in order to improve its appearance or flavour. garnished the potatoes with parsley. III. = garnishee Law Slang To have (money) set aside by court order (particularly for the payment of alleged debts); to garnishee. to extort money from. serve notice on (a third party) for the purpose of legally seizing money belonging to a debtor or defendant. seize (money, especially part of a person's salary) to settle a debt or claim. to take an amount from someone's wages (= money paid every week to an employee) or bank account in order to pay back money they owe: garnish someone's wages 扣押, 收缴 The IRS may end up garnishing your wages for the amount due. Debt collectors can garnish funds from your checking account. "the IRS garnished his earnings". After Ms Rogan garnisheed Mr White's bank account in an effort to recover money she claimed he owed her, he issued her with a bankruptcy notice, which she applied to court to have thrown out. to take part of the income or property of someone who owes a debt and give it to a court in order to pay the debt: After his house and car were taken, and wages garnished 截留, he was forced to move in with his parents. The state does not permit wage garnishment for most civil debts. garnish something with something to embellish or decorate something, such as food, with something. For the final presentation, I will garnish the dish with a sprig of parsley. The roast was garnished with slices of apple. A Garnish is an item or substance used as a decoration or embellishment on a prepared food dish or drink. In some cases, it may give added or contrasting flavor, but a typical garnish is selected first to augment the visual impact 增强视觉效果 of the plate, not necessarily to affect the flavor. This is in contrast to a condiment 调味品 which is primarily a flavor added to another food item. Parsley is an excellent example of a traditional garnish; this pungent green herb has small distinctly shaped leaves, firm stems, and is easy to trim into a garnish. Typically, few diners eat parsley garnishes. A garnish makes food or drink items more visually appealing. They may, for example, enhance their color, such as when paprika is sprinkled on a salmon salad. They may give a color contrast, for example when chives are sprinkled on potatoes. They may make a cocktail more visually appealing, such as when a cocktail umbrella is added to an exotic drink, or when a Mai Tai is topped with any number of tropical fruit pieces. Sushi, the Japanese fish dish, may be garnished with baran, a type of plastic grass or leaf. Sometimes a garnish and a condiment will be used together to finish the presentation of a dish, for example an entrée could be topped with a sauce and then a sprig of parsley would be added as a garnish. A garnishment 强制还款计划, 强制贷款偿还 is a means of collecting a monetary judgment against a defendant by ordering a third party (the garnishee) to pay money, otherwise owed to the defendant, directly to the plaintiff. In the case of collecting for taxes, the law of a jurisdiction may allow for collection without a judgment or other court order. Wage garnishment, the most common type of garnishment, is the process of deducting money from an employee's monetary compensation (including salary), sometimes as a result of a court order. Wage garnishments continue until the entire debt is paid or arrangements are made to pay off the debt. Garnishments can be taken for any type of debt but common examples of debt that result in garnishments include: child support, defaulted student loans, taxes, unpaid court fines. When served on an employer, garnishments are taken as part of the payroll process. When processing payroll, sometimes there is not enough money in the employee's net pay to satisfy all of the garnishments. For example, in a case with federal tax, local tax, and credit card garnishments, the first garnishment taken would be the federal tax garnishments, then the local tax garnishments, and finally, garnishments for the credit card. Employers receive a notice telling them to withhold a certain amount of their employee's wages for payment and cannot refuse to garnish wages. Wage garnishment can negatively affect credit, reputation, and the ability to receive a loan or open a bank account.

payday loan 和 美国的CFPB 被解散: 1. A payday loan 小额贷款, also called a small amount loan, lets you borrow up to $2,000. You have between 16 days and one year to pay it back. While it might look like a quick fix, a payday loan has a lot of fees. For example, to pay back a $2,000 payday loan over one year, your total repayments will be about $3,360. That's $1,360 more than you borrowed. 2. 美国CFPB (Consumer Financial Protection Bureau ) 解组: The post, along with the Elon Musk-led effort to disband the CFPB, reflects a 180-degree shift in the federal government's approach to protecting consumers. Advocates like Democratic Sen. Elizabeth Warren say the Trump administration's actions threaten to strip away the very safety net designed to prevent a repeat of the 2008 financial crisis. Think of SoLo as a kind of Uber for short-term loans: You need a few hundred bucks to repair your car or make rent, while someone else has a few hundred just sitting in their bank account. SoLo makes the match. You get your loan, and the lender gets their money back, plus an optional "tip," when that loan is repaid. SoLo, which has claimed to connect people with no mandatory fees and 0% interest, brands itself as an alternative to predatory payday lenders that gouge borrowers with exorbitant fees. But since its founding in 2018, SoLo has faced accusations from hundreds of customers and officials from at least five states over business practices that resemble the same deceptive practices SoLo claims to abhor. 3. defang [diːˈfæŋ] 削弱, 拔掉牙, 去獠牙 I. to remove the fangs from (an animal or reptile). defang the dogs. II. to weaken or compromise (something).  to render harmless. In trying to defang the terrorist threat, the US will have to dismantle a massive money laundering network. to defang an opposing candidate. an aggressive global campaign to defang dictators and build democracy. Last year, the CFPB sued SoLo, accusing the LA-based fintech company of deceiving borrowers by hiding interest and fees on its loans that ultimately saddled its customers with APRs (Annual Percentage Rate) "in excess of 300%" and some as high as 1,000%, according to a May 2024 press release, which has since been removed from the CFPB's website. Now, as the Trump administration guts the CFPB — "another woke, weaponized arm of the bureaucracy," per the Trump White House — the defanged agency is dropping its case against SoLo. Several former SoLo Funds employees told Bloomberg News in October that the company's founders ordered them to bury "toggle off" donation options on the lending platform — a claim SoLo denied. 4. saddle noun. I. 马鞍子. A saddle is a leather seat that you put on the back of an animal so that you can ride the animal. II. 座椅. 座位. 自行车或者摩托的座椅. A saddle is a seat on a bicycle or motorcycle. III. A saddle of lamb, rabbit, or venison is a piece of meat taken from the middle of the animal's back. side-saddle 侧坐着 adv. When you ride a horse side-saddle, you sit on a special saddle with both your legs on one side rather than one leg on each side of the horse. Naomi was given a pony and taught to ride side-saddle. Katie Moore took the ladies' side-saddle award. verb. I. If you saddle a horse, you put a saddle on it so that you can ride it. Why don't we saddle a couple of horses and go for a ride? I want to be gone from here as soon as we can saddle up. She saddled up a horse. If you saddle someone with a problem or with a responsibility, you put them in a position where they have to deal with it. The war devastated the economy and saddled the country with a huge foreign debt. be in the saddle = in the driver's seat = at the wheel = at the helm of sth 占主动权, 当家做主, 掌控, 对别人评头论足说三道四的 I. informal to have control of something. I'd like to assure people the government is firmly in the saddle. II. to be riding a horse. back in the saddle doing something you stopped doing for a period of time Friedman's career seemed to be finished a month ago, but he's back in the saddle and playing for Houston. saddle up to put a saddle on a horse. saddle someone with something to give someone something that is difficult to deal with. The company was saddled with a huge debt last year. pack saddle a type of horse's saddle to which you can fix a load. saddle-sore suffering from sore muscles and feeling stiff after you ride a horse or a bicycle. have a burr 芒刺, 毛边 under one's saddle 屁股上长疮, 如芒在背 Rur. to be irritated by something. Joe has a burr under his saddle because Jane's going out with Bill tonight. Mary must have a burr under her saddle. She's been snapping at me all day. The saddle shoe 男士的低跟的那种休闲皮鞋 is a low-heeled casual Oxford shoe, characterized by a plain toe and distinctive, saddle-shaped decorative panel placed mid foot. Saddle shoes are typically constructed of leather and are most frequently white with a black saddle, although any color combination is possible. 5. pillion 摩托后座, 自行车的后座 A pad or cushion for an extra rider behind the saddle on a horse or motorcycle. A seat or place behind the rider of a motorcycle, scooter, horse, etc. You still have to wait a year before you can carry pillions 骑车载人, 带人. adv. on a pillion = to ride pillion = ( US) ride two up, ride double, ride bitch. A pillion is a secondary pad, cushion, or seat behind the main seat or saddle on a horse, motorcycle, bicycle or moped. A passenger in this seat is said to "ride pillion". "Riding two up" and "riding double" are common North American phrases for riding with a passenger. "Riding bitch 后座载人" is an American expression, denoting sitting between two other people in a car or truck, where the transmission housing often forms a hump in the front or back analogous to a pillion. "Bitch seat" and "bitch pad" are North American slang for the pillion on a motorcycle; "riding bitch" is North American slang for "riding pillion". In the Philippines, riding pillion is called "riding in tandem". ride bitch on sth with someone I. (slang) To be a passenger in the pillion of a motorcycle. II. (slang) To be a passenger in the middle seat of a car with two others at either side. III. (slang, figuratively) To act in a subordinate sense to another. I just didn't want you to worry. No, you just didn't want to get caught. I'm sorry, but you telling me what I can and can't do is pretty damn emasculating 有损男子气概. Emasculating? You were about to ride bitch on a moped with another man. It's a scooter. Etymology: Women, or "biker bitches", would ride behind their male companions on a motorcycle in biker gang caravans. ride shotgun I. (idiomatic, slang) To ride in the front passenger seat of a vehicle, next to the driver. When both kids want to ride shotgun with Mom, they'll just have to take turns. II. (idiomatic, slang, figuratively) To accompany someone in order to assist and protect. He attended the meeting to ride shotgun for the sales team, in case anyone had a technical question. 6. straddle 骑着 I. a. To stand or sit with a leg on each side of; bestride: straddle a horse. b. To be on both sides of; extend over or across: a car straddling the centerline. II. To appear to favor both sides of (an issue). III. To fire shots behind and in front of (a target) in order to determine the range. straddle the fence 态度骑墙(hedge one's bets) Fig. to support both sides of an issue. (As if one were partly on either side of a fence.) The mayor is straddling the fence on this issue, hoping the public will forget it. The legislator wanted to straddle the fence until the last minute, and that alone cost her a lot of votes

Eleutherococcus senticosus 刺五加 is a species of small, woody shrub in the family Araliaceae native to Northeastern Asia. It may be colloquially called devil's bush, Siberian ginseng, taiga root, eleuthero, ciwujia, Devil's shrub, shigoka, touch-me-not, wild pepper, or kan jang. E. senticosus has a history of use in folklore and traditional Chinese medicine. Root extracts of E. senticosus are sold as a dietary supplement or cosmetic, usually under the name Siberian ginseng. Extracts from the root of Eleutherococcus senticosus, including eleutherosides, are promoted in alternative and traditional medicine for providing health effects, which are supported by clinical evidence. According to the WHO, only use "as a prophylactic ( prophylactic [ˌproʊ.fɪˈlæk.tɪk] 预防疾病的 preventing disease: Some dentists are convinced that the addition of fluoride in water is ineffective as a prophylactic treatment. ) and restorative 恢复的 ( [rɪˈstɒr.ə.tɪv] noun. something that makes you feel better or more energetic if you are feeling tired or ill: After a hard day at the office, a hot bath is a welcome restorative. adj. making you feel better or more energetic if you are feeling tired or ill: Ginseng is used as a restorative and preventive remedy. He's a great believer in the restorative power of long walks. ) tonic ( I. a liquid medicine that has the general effect of making you feel better rather than treating a particular health problem that you might have. II. informal something that makes you feel stronger or happier. A tonic is also anything that makes you feel better: Seeing his grandchildren was the perfect tonic for him. The magazine is lively and interesting - the pictures alone are a tonic. III. tonic water. carbonated (= with bubbles) water with a bitter taste that can be drunk on its own or added to alcoholic drinks: Two gin and tonics, please. ) for enhancement of mental and physical capacities in cases of weakness, exhaustion and tiredness, and during convalescence" is backed up by clinical evidence. The plant has been assessed in preliminary research for its potential use as an antimicrobial or antistress agent. convalescence [ˌkɒn.vəˈles.əns] 康复, 休养, 疗养 a period in which you convalesce. convalesce [ˌkɒn.vəˈles] to rest in order to get better after an illness. to rest in order to get better after an illness or operation: Dad's out of the hospital and convalescing at home. After your operation, you'll need to convalesce for a week or two. convalescent [ˌkɒnvəˈlɛsnt] 休养的, 康复中的, 恢复中的 adj. (of a person) recovering from an illness or medical treatment. being in the process or period of resting in order to get better after an illness or operation: convalescent patients. A convalescent home is a place where people go when they need medical care but do not need to be in a hospital. a convalescent home/hospital. "a convalescent child". A NURSE in kitten-patterned SCRUBS walks down the hallway of a convalescent facility, white sneakers squeaking on the linoleum floor. Same thick glasses, hair still a mess of frizz. We haven't seen her in twenty-five years, but as the NAME TAG confirms -- this is MISTY QUIGLEY, all grown up.... noun: 康复病患. a person who is recovering after an illness or medical treatment. someone who is getting better after a serious illness or injury: Most convalescents prefer to be cared for at home rather than in a hospital. "convalescents benefit from relaxation".

Epimedium, also known as barrenwort, bishop's hat, fairy wings, horny goat weed, or yin yang huo (Chinese: 淫羊藿; pinyin: Yínyánghùo; Wade–Giles: Yin²-yang²-huo⁴), is a genus of flowering plants in the family Berberidaceae. The majority of the species are endemic to China, with smaller numbers elsewhere in Asia, and a few in the Mediterranean region. It contains icariin, which is a weak PDE5 inhibitor, in vitro. Its clinical effects are unknown. While there is little clinical evidence to date, as sildenafil, vardenafil, and tadalafil – sold under the brand names Viagra, Levitra and Cialis – are all based on (stronger) PDE5 inhibitory action, it is thought to have erectogenic ( relating to the ability to get an erection, or to the drugs or other substances that can help with erections. ) properties and is found in some men's sexual health supplements.

movie: up in the air2

1. 二人在机场: I really like my luggage. That's exactly what it is - luggage. Know how much time you lose checking in? 35 minutes a flight. Willing to throw away an entire week on that? You don't need that. They have neck pillows 颈枕 on the plane. I'll get rid of this. I can just meet you at security. Ryan的安检排队经: Asians. You can't be serious. Never get behind people with infants. I've never seen a stroller ( pram. a pushchair) collapse ( 折叠起来 some cots collapse down to fit into a holdall有些帆布床可以折叠起来, 放进袋子或轻便旅行袋里) in less than 20 minutes. Old people are worse. They're littered with hidden metal and they never appreciate how little time they have left on earth. Asians, they pack light, travel efficiently, and they've got a thing for slip-on shoes (便鞋). That's racist. I'm like my mother我就像我妈, I stereotype. It's faster. 2. 飞机上: "Natalie, what is it you think we do here?" "We prepare the newly-unemployed for the emotional and physical hurdles of job hunting, while minimising legal blowback后座力." "That's what we're selling. It's not what we're doing." "OK, what are we doing?" "We are here to make limbo tolerable, to ferry wounded souls across the river of dread (A "river of dread" refers to a metaphorical body of water representing a powerful, overwhelming feeling of fear or anxiety, often signifying a situation that feels inescapable and potentially dangerous, similar to how a strong river current can pull someone under; it draws from the concept of a mythological river in the underworld associated with death and fear, like the Styx in Greek mythology, which is sometimes called the "river of dread." Brig of Dread or Bridge of Dread is a bridge to Purgatory that a dead soul had to cross. Evil souls fall from the bridge into hell. This is a common afterlife theme found in some form or other in many cultures, such as the Chinvat Bridge of Zoroastrianism and As-Sirāt of Islam. The "Brig o' Dread" is an important element in The Lyke-Wake Dirge, an old Northern English waking song. ) until the point where hope is dimly visible 若隐若现. Then stop the boat, shove 'em in the water and make 'em swim." "That's really impressive. Are you gonna put that in your book?" 3. "Please go die. Right away "Just die"". Ryan接到Alex的电话 I gotta grab this 我要接个电话. I'll meet you at the car rental. "Hey, I was hoping I'd hear from you." I'm in Hotlanta(The "Hot" in "Hotlanta" refers to the many wonderful things to do in Atlanta, especially the sexy nightlife Atlanta is famous for. To a lesser degree, it also refers to the hot summer temperatures common to Atlanta.) and I need a rib-joint recommend bad. "Fat Matt's. Bring a bib (带上个围裙, 肚兜)." "You never called." "I wasn't sure what was appropriate." "Appropriate? I'm not some waitress you banged in a snowstorm. That word has no place in our vocabulary. I'm the woman that you don't have to worry about." "Sounds like a trap." "Listen... the next time that you're worried about manners, don't. If you wanna call, call. Just think of me as yourself, only with a vagina." "When am I gonna see you?" "Well, I'm out of Hartsfield into IAD, with a connection in ORD into SDF." "How long's your layover停留,经停? They got multiples into SDF. Could you push?" "Yeah, I can push." 4. So although I wish I were here with better news, the fact is that you and I are sitting here today because this will be your last week of employment at this company. Why me? This is ridiculous! I have been a fine employee for over 10 years and this is the way you treat me. "How's your family? They sleeping well at night? Electricity still on? Heat still on, refrigerator full of food? Gas tank full of gas?" "Perhaps you're underestimating the positive effect your career transition can have on your children." "... And I guess without benefits, I'll be able to hold my daughter as she, you know, suffers from her asthma that I won't be able to afford the medication for." "Well...tests have shown that children under moderate trauma have a tendency to apply themselves academically 一心扑在学业上 (apply (oneself) to (something) To put forth effort toward some task or goal. to work hard and diligently at something. You should apply yourself to your studies. She applied herself to her work and the time passed very rapidly. Honey, if you would just apply yourself to your schoolwork, you would get much better grades. I refuse to apply myself to a losing proposition like this one. Why waste my time on something that will never get funding? I'm impressed with how much Greg has applied himself to this project. apply oneself/one's mind (with to) to give one's full attention or energy (to a task etc). If he applied himself, he could pass his exams.)... as a method of coping." "Your children's admiration is important to you? " "Yeah, it was." "Well, I doubt they ever admired you, Bob." "Hey, asshole, aren't you supposed to be consoling me?" "I'm not a shrink, Bob. I'm a wake-up call. You know, Kids love athletes because they follow their dreams. Your resume says that you minored in French culinary arts. Then you get out of college and then you come and work here. How much did they first pay you to give up on your dreams? I see guys who work at the same company for their entire lives, guys exactly like you. They clock in, they clock out, and they never have a moment of happiness." 5. 排队插队: "He just waltzes in and cuts in line( waltz [wɒlts] to walk somewhere quickly and confidently, often in a way that annoys other people: waltz into 扭着屁股 You can't just waltz into my bedroom without knocking - it's private! waltz off with My idiot husband has gone and waltzed off with my car keys and left me without any way to get to work! )?" "We reserve priority assistance for our Hilton Honors members." "The promotions are great. You should check it out. "Hungry much 很饿吗?" "Our business expense 商务开支, 出差开支 allots $40 each for dinner. I plan on grabbing as many miles as I can." "OK, you gotta fill me in on the miles thing. What is that about? Are you talking about...like frequent flyer miles?" "You really want to know?" "I'm dying to know." "I don't spend a nickel if I can help it unless it somehow profits my mileage account." "So what are you saving up for -Hawaii, South of France?" "That's it? You're saving just to save? That's a little abstract( adj. I. 虚幻的. 不是真实存在的. existing as an idea, feeling, or quality, not as a material object. existing as an idea, feeling, or quality, not as a material object: "Humanity" is an abstract idea. Truth and beauty are abstract concepts. II. An abstract argument or discussion is general and not based on particular examples. If a statement, argument, or discussion is abstract, it is general and not based on particular examples. This debate is becoming too abstract - let's have some hard facts! the abstract general ideas. in the abstract So far we've only discussed the question in the abstract (= without referring to any real examples). I have difficulty dealing with the abstract - let's discuss particular cases. III. used to refer to a type of painting, drawing, or sculpture that uses shapes, lines, and colour in a way that does not try to represent the appearance of people or things: abstract art. an abstract painter. abstract noun I. a short form of a speech, article, book, etc., giving only the most important facts or ideas: There is a section at the end of the magazine that includes abstracts of recent articles/books. II. a painting that uses shapes, lines, and colour in a way that does not try to represent the appearance of people or things. abstract verb to consider something in a general way or make a general judgment after looking at particular details: Most interviewees focus on their own experience and do not generalize or abstract the situation. A general rule is arrived at by abstracting from the data. II. to remove or separate someone or something from a place or context (= the situation, facts, words, etc. that exist around something): abstract someone from something It was impossible to abstract children from their social environment with all its dangers. abstract something from something Relevant information was abstracted from the database or from medical records. III. to give a summary or abstract (= a short description giving the most important ideas) of something: If you find an article you think should be abstracted in our journal, submit it for consideration. ). What's the target?" "I'd rather not." "I don't mean to belittle your collection. I get it. It sounds cool." "And they put your name on a plane." "Men get hard-ons putting their name on stuff. You guys don't grow up. It's like you need to pee on everything." "Now who's stereotyping?" "Fear of mortality. It's like, yeah, you're gonna die one day." Ryan: "Why is that singular to men (为什么只有男人这样)( singular I. unusual or strange; not ordinary. II. of an unusual quality or standard; noticeable: It was a building of singular grace and beauty. He showed a singular lack of skill in painting.)?" "Probably because you can't have babies. If I had that many miles I would show up at an airport, look at the destination board, pick a place and go." 6. Ryan让Natalie帮着照相: I don't get it. Why does your sister want a fake photo? My sister is kooky. She thinks this is charming. It's like the gnome thing. No, I mean, why would she want a fake photo in front of St Louis airport? Are you kidding - Lambert Field? The Wright brothers flew through there. That domed main terminal, is the first of its kind, a precursor of everything from JFK to de Gaulle. "Well, that's a keeper (不错, 值得保留)." "Let me see it." Ryan:"Why she wants reminders of all the places she hasn't been is beyond me." "I'm sure she'll be crushed for having missed this airport." 7. 又在裁人, 被裁的发火了: "Do you know how fucked this place is now? I am the one thing - the one thing- preventing this place from being totally fucked in the ass." Ryan:"Sometimes they just need to vent". Natalie第一次裁人即遇到牛人"You don't have to sugar-coat it. I get the drill." "Inside the packet, you'll find a clearly worked out severance package." "Give me the bullet points." "three months' pay, six months' medical. And a full year of placement services (就业服务, 就业指导) through our CTC." "That's generous. Don't even sweat it. I'm pretty confident about my plans." 然后此人冷静的说她要自杀(Jump off the bridge), Natalie受不了了, Ryan出来劝说 "People say these things all the time. It's part of the trade 工作的一部分. They say crazy things. They get worked up." "She was really calm." "I think that's a good sign." "So they don't ever actually do it?" "No. No, it's just talk "How do you know? Do you follow up?" "No, nothing good's gonna come of that, but... I wouldn't worry about it. This is what we do, Natalie. We take people at their most fragile and we set them adrift." 8. Natalie: "I'll be back soon. I'm not sure how long this exercise is supposed to last. No, I don't even think of him that way. He's old." Ryan: "I want you to fill it with people. Start with casual acquaintances 不熟的人, friends of friends, folks around the office. And then the people you trust with your most intimate secrets". 说起婚姻: "Never want kids?" "Not a chance. Is that so bizarre? I just don't see the value in it." 在宾馆见到了Alex: "Maybe we should just all go up to our rooms and freshen up." Natalie和bf分手, Alex说"He broke up with you with a text message? Kind of like firing someone over the internet. What a weaselly prick." Natalie说"But what does that make me 那我成了什么? Someone who falls for a prick." Natalie:"I thought I'd be engaged by now. No offence." Alex:"None taken. It's all right" "Life can underwhelm you that way." Natalie:"I mean, where did you think you'd be by um..." Ryan:" It doesn't work that way." Alex:"At a certain point, you stop with the deadlines. It can be counterproductive." Natalie:"But sometimes it feels like, no matter how much success I have, it's not gonna matter until I find the right guy." Alex: "You really thought this guy was the one?" "I could have made it work. He um... He really fit the bill 满足所有条件. works in finance but is outdoorsy, you know, on the weekends. I always imagined he'd have a single syllable name like Matt or John..." Alex: "Honestly, by the time you're 34, all the physical requirements 外表的要求 go out the window. Like you secretly pray that he'll be taller than you." Alex: "Not an asshole would be nice. Someone who enjoys my company, comes from a good family. You don't think about that when you're younger. I don't know...someone who wants kids. Likes kids. Healthy enough to play with his kids. Please let him earn more money than I do. You might not understand that now, but believe me, you will one day. Otherwise that's a recipe for disaster. And hopefully some hair on his head. But I mean even that's not a deal breaker these days. A nice smile. Yeah, a nice smile. Nice smile just might do it." Natalie: "Wow, that was depressing. I should just date women." Alex:"Tried it. We're no picnic 不是省油的灯 ourselves."  Natalie: "I don't mind being married to my career. And I don't expect it to hold me in bed as I fall asleep. I just don't want to settle 接受现实, 随便找个人嫁了." Alex: "You're young. Right now you see settling as some sort of a failure." Natalie:"It is...by definition." Alex"But by the time someone is right for you, it won't feel like settling." 关于晚上的安排"Well, we were gonna hit that party for the tech conference at the hotel." Natalie: "I didn't know you could just attend those. I thought you had to register." Technically, I don't think it's open to the public." "You're gonna crash it? I get it. I'm in."